I’m a very laid back guy and it takes a great deal to actually piss me off, however once I get to that point I tend to go off a bit. Consider yourself warned ;)
Yeah so I read about this episode of Oprah, whom incidentally I don’t care for most the time, that was talking about parents viewing their children as burdens. After reading the blog piece I couldn’t really bring myself to actually view the episode of the show as I feared I may have tossed something very large and very heavy through the monitor.
Let me also preface this by saying that I absolutely abhor violence towards women, I’ve seen too much of it in my own life and nothing sets me off more except violence towards children and animals. I was lucky to have been raised by two amazing women that I owe my very existence too (Mom and Grandmother) and I love them dearly. I also was a child who was told repeatedly growing up that I was not smart enough, good enough etc. to amount to shit, because of this I literally turned my back on my father as he lay dying in a hospital bed.
I’m all grown up now though and have learned (unlike some of the fucks below) that isn’t healthy and I’ve accepted my father for who he is and why he was that way. And we’re both much better people for it and I’m proud to have him as my father. It’s called growing up and maturing instead of boo hooing and bitching about how piss poor your own childhood was, this is called being and adult….
Let me share with you a few choice bits though.
“But the mothers who shared that they didn’t bathe their kids for three weeks or used the Jacuzzi to bathe them are taking care of their own desire to save effort while seriously neglecting their kids’ needs.”
Are you fucking shitting me? What part about a child being a CHILD do you not get. They are not little adults, they are not self sufficient in any way shape or form, they are not going to just “figure it out” on their own. If you’re too fucking lazy to bathe your child then you need to hand over that kid to someone who actually cares about their well being over their own. Save effort? What the fuck did you think parenting was?? Something you can do part time when you feel like it or when it’s not a hassle or interferes with your social life?
How about this cunt here.
“…woman who unsympathetically said she took away everything her children loved when they misbehaved, and that she faked crying to manipulate them into behaving.”
If I saw this woman on the street I’d smack the living shit out of her and take her children on the spot. The psychological damage of seeing that little event would be far less than what this bitch is doing. Manipulating a child for fucks sake! That’s just sick and the bitch should be in jail. I mean really, what is your motivation for that exactly? I get it your kid misbehaves and it drives you nuts, but you know what you deal with it LIKE AN ADULT! I’d be willing to be her children are more emotionally and psychological developed than this worthless sack of shit.
Here’s another that really pisses me the fuck off. The parents that have little Timmy in every conceivable sport, club, event, social awareness circle and side show in town. Oh and Timmy you best come in first place or guess what, that’s right we’ll take your toys away and tell you how disappointed we are in you. Here’s an idea how’s about asking Timmy if he wants to do any of this shit, he may prefer to draw in his free time, or sing, oh and better yet how about we let him be a kid maybe? Instead of trying to overcompensate for your perceived failings as a child why don’t you break that cycle and oh I dunno try to be a loving supporting parent so your child will turn out less fucked up than you did.
All of this boils down to the fact that in order to have kids you should be licencsed, take a class something. I mean hell you have to have a license to drive, register to vote, be legal age to drink and smoke, have a degree to teach kids etc. But yet all you have to do in order to be a parent is fuck, and that boys and girls is a sad sad thing. And if you can’t hack it like some of the “parents” mentioned above there are literally thousands of loving people that would be happy to take your perceived burden off your hands for you. I know plenty of them drop me a line.
Anyhow glad we could clear that up and I think I’m sufficiently mellow now to go about the rest of my day.
Until next time, keep your feet on the ground and your shoulders above em’ unless of course you’re into some of the freaky kinda sex……then by all means enjoy J
